I Didn’t Know Having a Baby Increases Your Risk for Stroke

As informed to Jacquelyne Froeber

Might is Stroke Awareness Month.

“Why is my face numb?”

As I stared at myself within the mirror, every little thing seemed high-quality to me. However the left facet of my face positively felt numb. Then I remembered that the tip of my tongue felt numb the day earlier than.

Alarm bells began going off in my head. Was there one thing flawed with me?

I knew I used to be juggling so much as a first-time mother, however I’d been feeling nice up till that time. I’d had a speedy restoration after my C-section, and I used to be excited for my second day again at work. I felt like I had my life found out.

So, I satisfied myself that the numbness was no large deal. I’d most likely slept laborious on my left facet close to the child monitor. And I most likely burned my tongue on one of many many cups of espresso I’d been ingesting to really feel much less drained.

Days glided by however the numbness stayed, and the fatigue obtained worse. I ran right into a buddy who’s a doctor assistant and informed him how I used to be feeling. “Do you suppose it’s Bell’s palsy?” I requested.

“Possibly … however get it checked out,” he stated.

I frowned. “What else may or not it’s? I didn’t have a strokeor something.” That was the one factor I may consider that was related to numbness.

He agreed that I didn’t seem like I had a stroke, however thought I ought to nonetheless see my main care physician. Fortunately, I used to be in a position to get in to see her that day. She stated I may have Bell’s palsy, however I wanted to go to emergency care to make certain.

I attempted to purpose along with her. I had work, a new child at my neighbor’s home, and my husband was out of city — did I really want to go to the ER?

She stated sure.

Two imaging checks later, the ER physician stated he thought I’d had a stroke, however they wanted extra testing to make certain.

I used to be shocked.

I’d joked about it earlier than, however a stroke simply didn’t appear attainable. My face wasn’t drooping, and I didn’t have slurred speech. I used to be a wholesome, energetic, 36-year-old mother who simply had a splendidly boring, uncomplicated beginning. How was this taking place to me?

I used to be taken to the neuro unit of the hospital the place a nurse requested if I wanted a breast pump. I famous there have been a number of pumps on the shelf behind her. “You wouldn’t imagine what number of new mothers we get in right here,” she stated.

Jess holding her son, Stanley, within the hospital after her stroke in 2019.

I believed that was odd however later realized that your physique goes right into a hypercoagulable state after giving beginning, which suggests your blood is extra prone to clot and also you’re at an elevated threat for stroke.

This blew my thoughts. I’d been apprehensive about 1,000 various things after having my son, however nobody talked about the elevated risk of a stroke.

The subsequent day the checks confirmed that I did, actually, have a stroke in my mind stem. My hypercoagulable state may’ve brought about it, however nobody knew for positive.

My physician stated I’d most likely be high-quality. He prescribed me some remedy and I went dwelling. Nobody appeared to suppose it was that large of a deal, so I figured the worst was behind me.

Three days later, I awakened in mattress watching two ceiling followers. We solely have one. For about half-hour, I attempted to focus my eyes to make one fan, however I simply couldn’t do it. I stumbled my method down the steps and informed my husband we wanted to return to the ER.

After extra checks, the excellent news was that I wasn’t displaying proof of any new strokes. The dangerous information: Nobody knew what was responsible for my double imaginative and prescient. I used to be prescribed one other remedy and went again dwelling disoriented and scared.

Sadly, the remedy didn’t assist. As disturbing because the double imaginative and prescient was, the fatigue was even worse. I felt like I used to be being weighed down by a thick fog that by no means lifted. The tiredness had grow to be my new regular, so I did my finest to push by the fatigue and keep as energetic as attainable. I knew caring for my bodily well being may solely assist in the long term.

Jess along with her husband and son, Stanley.

After two months, I did begin to really feel higher. I had extra power and my imaginative and prescient was virtually again to regular. However the aid was short-lived. I began having episodes the place I’d lose command of my lips or tongue or my left arm or leg. The lack of motor ability solely lasted about 30 seconds — however every time it felt like an eternity. I by no means knew when an episode would occur, however they have been so frequent that I obtained good at hiding them.

I knew the entire scenario was weird. Usually, individuals who’ve had a stroke present progress over time — I had a complete new set of signs. And nobody may inform me what was occurring.

Lastly, I did discover a physician who stated I used to be having episodes as a result of my mind wasn’t getting sufficient blood. He stated if we may sluggish or forestall the blood from clotting, the episodes would cease after about six months.

For the following half of the 12 months, I took a brand new remedy and tried to be affected person with myself. It wasn’t straightforward. Each morning I awakened scared that I’d see two ceiling followers. And each time I had an episode, I feared I wouldn’t come out of it. Then, across the six-month mark, the episodes stopped. They usually didn’t come again.

Through the years, I’ve been stunned by the quantity of people that both know somebody who’s had a postpartum stroke or had one themselves. I want I’d recognized concerning the elevated threat — possibly I wouldn’t have shrugged off the fatigue and numbness for so long as I did.

After my episodes stopped, I used to be good for a very long time. However in 2021, I began experiencing trigeminal neuralgia, searing ache on the left facet of my face — much like the place I had the numbness with the stroke. At first, the ache would come and go, however as of at present, it’s been greater than a 12 months of fixed, unrelenting ache.

I feel the ache is by some means linked to the stroke, however the docs aren’t positive why it’s taking place or how one can deal with the ache. It’s been a irritating and time-consuming course of, and a few days the ache is so overwhelming I really feel hopeless. However I do know I’ve to maintain pushing to search out the assistance I would like. Simply because I haven’t discovered it but — doesn’t imply it’s not on the market.

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